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♥ Bad girl Photoshoot :: Britney Spears ♥ [16 Aug 2007|02:06pm]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | dancy ]

I know that she's had some bad press lately, but no one really knows the real Britney. Everyone is just shooting shit because they want their 15 minutes of fame. I will always love Britney and I think she will always be my bad girl mentor. I lurve her.

Britney's topless Allure magazine shootCollapse )

And one funny pic because it made me laugh so hard, although I love Lindsay...

And that's goodCollapse )

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♥ Bad girls update! ♥ [22 Feb 2007|03:29am]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | tired ]

So, here I am at almost 4am on Thursday morning and wondering what the heck I should update with. No one else seems to be updating but I really want this community to work out and I have a bunch of content to put in here but no one ever comments, so it gets me to thinking maybe you girls want to read something else...So, please comment here and tell me what you would like to know about and I will do my best to write some entries based on your ideas. Have any questions? Please ask and I can answer as best as I can and some of the other girls can as well. :) K? I'm gonna go to bed now with my hunky piece of man meat. ;P

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Here's my valentine's day present to you... [13 Feb 2007|07:31pm]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | naughty ]

Justin Timberlake's dick in a box...

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Here are some icons of some bad girls... [13 Feb 2007|12:26am]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | bored ]

Lindsay Lohan [11]
Paris Hilton [3]
Britney Spears [15]

My dreams will take me thereCollapse )

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♥ Desire :: Exercise one ♥ [12 Feb 2007|02:33pm]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | dancy ]

List three things you daydream about to make yourself feel better when you're blue.
1.
2.
3.

Now ask yourself:
1. Which elements of the above daydream (or which dreams) would you love to be a reality?

2. What could you do in the next hour to bring a dream closer to a reality?

3. What's stopping you from doing this (if it's fundamental thing like your job, money or time, whst could you do to change this)?

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♥ Instant Naughty task #1 ♥ [10 Feb 2007|07:42pm]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | tired ]

Call up, email or find a person who actually lives out one of your dreams and ask them for advice.

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♥ Clues you've had a desire meltdown ♥ [09 Feb 2007|05:04pm]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | cold ]

- Telling yourself it's okay always to put others first
- No longer knowing what it is you want from life
- Thinking you should be grateful and not want more
- Not being able to say no to people you love
- Feeling you can't express your hopes to anyone
- Feeling ashamed that you want more than you have
- Letting friends and family dismiss your dreams as silly
- Feeling something is missing from your life
- Not having faith in your own decisions and desires
- Feeling immobilised with anxiety about the future
- Feeling you are being left behind by your friends and peers
- Thinking this is as good as it gets
- Not expecting anything good, so you won't be disappointed
- Feeling you have somehow missed the boat

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♥ Desire :: Introduction ♥ [07 Feb 2007|03:47pm]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | Singing ]

What do your desire in your life? Aside from smaller/bigger boobs, winning the lottery and a movie-star husband? When was the last time you sat down and thought carefully about your secret desires, wants and needs? And I'm not talking domestic needs or career wants, but simple, honest desires for YOU! If the answer is years ago, it's worth remembering that knowing what you want abd beed us the key to living a happy and fulfilled life. Why? Well, because it's the fulfillment of what you desire that determines how happy you feel and how happy you are in your own skin, or, as the experts say, how authentically you end up living your life.

Quash your needs, ignore what you desire or just simply forget about what you want out of life because you're too busy getting things done, then the chances are you're going to be someone who wakes up one day and feels unhappy, depressed and plain fed up. If that sounds familiar, you're not alone; most of us have spent a lifetime trying to please someone else and be what we're not, which is why it's time to give yourself a wakeup talk and consider just what you want and why. Maybe you think you're too old, or too poor to go for it. Or perhaps you think it's just too late to go after what you want and makes your dreams come true. Maybe, you even believe you're just too busy making a living to bother about what you want. If so, it's worth knowing that it's never too late to be who you want to be in life.

Life is full of examples of late bloomers: women who took up writing at 70 and became world-renowned authors, actresses who suddenly won an Oscar at 60, or businesswomen who made their first million in their fifties. While I am not advocating waiting until you're grey to make your impact, the point is that if they can do it so can you. The good news is that sucess and a sense of fulfilment are not just for people in their early twenties - they are for anyone willing to get out ther and grab life.

Reinvention is also on offer for all: look at all the women who lose half their body weight after a lifetime of being fat, or those who decide they are going to run a marathon, climb a mountain or even start their own business after years of being bored out of their minds. Or even women who end up single after 20 years of marriage and blossom overnight into gorgeous beings who have lives twice as exciting as before. It's not an accident or fluke, it's all down to rediscovering who they are, deep down inside.

The fact is, you have one life, and if you currently hate where you are, you owe it to yourself to change things and cram it with as much fun, happiness and a sense of achievement as you can. What's more, it's not selfish to put your desires first even if you have kids or are part of a couple, but it is matyrdom if you decide to put your needs second and then make everyone else feel bad about what's happening to you. Which means that if you're fed up and can't remember the last time you let rip with a loud laugh, and/or have no idea when you last when you last felt euphoric with joy, it's time to refocus and fight back.

Pin pointing your desires is where it all begins, and the strategy, and the strategy is simple: think about what you want and why, and not just in a serious way. Wanting more fun, less gravity and generally more adventure is what life is all about, alongside the day-to-day business of living, work, relationships and bills.

Source: Naughty but nice: The no excuses guide to getting what you want by Anita Naik

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Low self esteem [06 Feb 2007|09:14pm]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | optimistic ]

Do you need a self esteem makeover? If you feel your life lack adventure, your looks are missing that certain je ne sais quoi and your attitude's about as bold as a small fluffy kitten, then it's likely you need to boost your self-worth and give in to what's known as a naughty but nice attitude. Naughty as in living and going for what you want, and nice, as in finally getting what you want.

According to a report published by the mental healthcare providers, The Priory Group (March 2006), millions of us currently suffer from "Not good enough" syndrome and have self esteem that' so low that it adversely affects our relationships, work prospects, body image and quality of life. According to the research results, 57% of us are people - pleasers, eager to put our own needs on hold for others. 50% know they are their worst critics and routinely let a little voice inside them stop them from reaching their goal. A mammoth 39% of us don't say what we think because we are worried about what others might say, 36% of us say that how we feel about ourselves depends on how other people treat us. On top of all of this, nearly a quarter of us say we're perfectionists with unrealistic expectations of life, including personal relationships and career development.

It sounds depressing but it isn't, because acknowledging you have low self esteem is a great starting point: it's only when you realise that you are suffering negative self-image that you start wanting to change and actually start changing your life. This needn't be a radically different life but a life that's definitely more exciting and broader than it currently is. A life that's bold and a life where when you look in the mirror, an involuntary groan doesn't escape your lips.

Source: Naughty but nice by Anita Naik

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Pictures :: Daniel Radcliffe [01 Feb 2007|08:54pm]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | naughty ]

It's time that we all confess that we do have a crush on little Harry Potter. I know that I've been admitting it since the Prisoner of Azkaban...that kid is hot! Okay, that sounded dirty, but you know what I mean and if you don't...you will once you clickity click on the LJ cut below!!!

I'm too sexy for my clothes...Collapse )

Okay, now keep it in the pants, ladies!

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♥ Sexy vs. Skanky ♥ [09 Jan 2007|01:57pm]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | tired ]

A bad girl needs to stay in the loop as to what's sexy vs what's skanky because we don't need to go out looking all skanked up.

Sexy: Little Actresses walking little dogs
Skanky: Big Actors walkign little dogs

Sexy: Blushing bride, Amanda Peet
Skanky: Blushing bride, Anna Nicole Smith

Sexy; Sporting puffy sleeves
Skanky: Sporting sleeves so volumnious you could pass for a marshmallow

Sexy: House
Skanky: House of Carters
(Now I beg to differ on this one. There is only one great doctor show and that's Scrubs, besides House of Carters is something to totally sit and laugh at whenever its on. That's what Matt and I do)

Sexy: Fishnet stockings
Skanky: Fishnet top

Sexy: Kissing your mate's lips in a public place
Skanky: Kissing your mate's stomach in a public place

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Fascinating facts about men [17 Dec 2006|03:10am]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | dancy ]

Little details elude them

Both sexes process events in the amygdala, an almond shaped mass in the brain that responds to arousing stimuli. Women interpret these scenarios in the left side, which is better able to absorb details. Men, on the other hand, process them on the right side of the amygdala, so they can recall the gist but not the nitty-gritty, That's why he can remember where you went on your first date but unlike you, wouldn't be able to recall what the weather was like.

They really want to be married

You may think men are programmed to be players, but the concept of marriage actually may have been created by males as a form of "mate guarding." Sticking to one woman could have ensured a greater chance of reproductive success than the exhaustive process of bed-hopping from one female to the next.

They obsess, too!
Rather than worry about why they're feeling s certain way or what someone else might be thinking, as women often do, men tend to stress (actually make that obsess) about the right course of action to take in a given situation.

Toys are part of their DNA
Ever wonder why men are so into their toys? One theory is that, over time, males developed preferences for objects that they could throw and move, which utilized the skills they needed for hunting and finding a mate.

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Milo from Heroes [16 Dec 2006|06:20pm]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | naughty ]

Here are some sexy pics for all you bad girls to drool over.

My apology for not updating latelyCollapse )

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See your name in russian [10 Nov 2006|12:53am]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | amused ]

I would like to thank Jackie for making my day with this. lol.

http://www.callme.nm.ru/

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Why aren't they sad after a breakup? [15 Oct 2006|06:38pm]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | amused ]

A break up is extra brutal when your ex seems to shrug it off. The truth is, he's upset - he just has more practice hiding it. Women judge their success by their relationships, so if one fails, they think about it all day.

Since men base their identities more on their jobs, they can shelve their relationship thoughts and focus on work. Women are more affected by oxytocin, a chemical released by the body during relationships, so after a breakup, women biologically respond more adversely.

Guys do sulk, but only when they're alone - and yes, going out drinking is his version of crying on the couch with ice cream.

Source: Cosmopolitan magazine

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Be desired! [13 Oct 2006|09:38pm]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | sexy ]

Active with imagination

Live life to the fullest by getting active and ensuring you're not only slim but trim and toned. Try these simple suggestions to get energized.

Keep moving. Whether it's taking the stairs over the elevator or getting out on the dance floor at your favorite club, the more you move the more calories you burn.

Make everything an activity. Exercise doesn't have to mean spending hours in the gym. Go for a walk with a friend or picking up the pace during a day out shopping can help you drop those pounds.

Slim and trim at the gym. If you'd benefit from a more structured environment the gym is the way to go. Exercise machines make weight training simpler, joining an exercise class can keep you motivated, a little personal training can work wonders and you never know who you might meet. ;)

A step in the right direction. Start your day off with a fast-paced walk around the neighbourhood. It's an easy way to burn off extra calories.

Beauty starting skin deep

Beauty may be skin deep, but why shouldn't your outer radiance match your inner? Heighten your outer glow with these beautifying tips.

Exfoliate, exfoliate, exfoliate! For a quick, at home body exfoliation, mix olive oil with sea salt or sugar and smooth the mixture over your skin in circular motions (avoiding the breast area). Rinse off in the shower and follow up with your favorite moisturizer.

Moisture mystique. Apply face lotion within three minutes of washing your face. You only have about three minutes to stop the evaporation of water from skin.

Suntan fan? Exposure to the sun can be damaging. For a non-hazardous, wrinkle-free glow, opt for a self-tanner over the harmful rays of the sun. Top it off by mixing a small amount of shimmer into your foundation for that exotic bronzed look.

Zap zits! Tone down the redness of unsightly blemishes by applying an ice cube to the area for about 30 seconds. Then place a few dabs of eye drops on the spot.

Scent satisfaction. If you're tired of your perfume scent disappearing before the night is through? Give your favorite fragrance extended life by dabbing petroleum jelly on your pulse points.

Be an Object of Desire

It's not always easy to stay motivated. Try these ideas for added encouragement when you need it most.

Always think positive. Confidence is sexy. There's nothing more attractive than a vivacious woman!

Choose sexy, not shameless. Tease their imaginations. You don't have to bare a lot of skin to make them notice.

Treat your body like a temple. Make healthy food choices and keep active - the results are well worth it!

Source: be-desired.com

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♥ Lesson #1:: Your mojo ♥ [24 Sep 2006|05:48pm]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | annoyed ]

Everyone has a certain kind of sexy personality...it may be hiding, but you got one! You just got to show it! Don't be afraid of what others may be thinking of you, either because the one who sits back and never takes any initiative is the one that gets left behind and you do not want to be left behind. It's not cool.

So, pick a flavor of what your "you goo" should be and go with it. You goo is the social lubricant you put on in public (In other words, it's your sexy personality. Your mojo.), so pick one and let's get lubricating girls! ;)

What flavor is your baddy sauce?

BBQ
Hot and sour
Picante
Bittersweet chocolate
Bearnaise
Syrop
Ginger soy
Marshmallow chewy
Salsa fresca
Sweet and nutty
Honey pepper
Green curry
Horseradish
Spicy meatball
Lemon butter
Catsup
Jalapeno hot
Plum duck

Personally, I can be picante when I want to be, but normally I'm Bittersweet chocolate. So sweet and cute, I can give you a toothache. What's yours?

If you guys ever see a book/article/song/movie that you think would be good for other bad girls to see or read or listen to, please post it! Or if you have some bad ass questions to ask...go right ahead. You can talk about everything from love to sex to family. So, have fun and get more girls to join! ;)

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That girl [26 Aug 2006|06:14pm]

xxcandypantsxx
[ mood | dancy ]

All about this Sex Goddess

Hey, Baby! My Name is Candy
I am years old 20
I lost my virginity when I was 17
My Bad girl mentor is Britney Spears

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